Eight Gifts that Don’t Cost a Cent!

20. November 2009 by admin.

Many months ago I subscribed to “Insight of the Day”.  Fridays they share a story with me.  The rest of the week they share short quotes.  I am telling you this because you may want to consider subscribing yourself by clicking here.  The below “Eight Gifts …” is part of their longer Friday story.

Eight Gifts that Don’t Cost a Cent!This simple checklist can help measure how you are nurturing your relationships.

The Gift of Listening
But you must really listen. Don’t interrupt, don’t daydream, and don’t plan your response. Just listen.

The Gift of Affection
Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and handholds. Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends.

The Gift of Laughter
Clip cartoons. Share articles and funny stories. Your gift will say, “I love to laugh with you.”

The Gift of Solitude
There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone.
Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.

The Gift of a Favour
Every day, go out of your way to do something kind. Good deeds are cool.

The Gift of a Written Note
It can be a simple “Thanks for your help” note, or a longer expression of your appreciation for that person being in your life. A brief handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime.

The Gift of a Compliment
A simple and sincere, “You look great in red,” “You did a super job,” or “That was a wonderful meal” can make someone’s day.

The Gift of a Cheerful Disposition
The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone.

These are eight important ways we can contribute toward whole and healthy relationships. They cost nothing, yet they may well be the most valuable gifts we can ever offer another person.

Phil Evans

Phil Evans is a Personal Life Coach and Small Business Mentor specializing in Relationship Dynamics. He is a Keynote Speaker on Life Skills and a variety of Business Topics. Find out more at: www.peoplestuff.com.au

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